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(173) Peter Ansari
Wed, 27 April 2016 08:12:58 +0000
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Dear Daniel,
I really love your movie about the open dialogue in Finland. Allthough I am more interested in depression than in schizophrenia. I am writing a book on depression and I would like to know if you allow me to cite from your movie.
Of course I am giving your full name and the name of the movie - event the internet link.
... and I am writing in german.
So please tell me, if that is alright for you, because the publishing house needs this information.

Many thanks
Peter Ansari

www.depression-heute.de


(172) Zhi Li
Sat, 16 April 2016 02:56:58 +0000

I am a student from China,also a man called mad by psychiatrists.And I am interested in the work you have done.My qestion is how do you cure the disease.And could my disease be cured in China?By the way, are you Christian?Waiting for your reply.

(171) Suzanne
Tue, 5 April 2016 20:06:00 +0000
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Hi Dan,
Thanks for your beautiful work! You are a major inspiration. I have shared your videos (Take these broken wings, and the Finland and Swedish approaches) with so many people.
I know you get asked this a lot, but do you know of any personal healing and transformation centers, therapists or spiritual teachers in the USA that are not focused on medicating people, and focused on helping them live in a more healthy way; reducing depression, anxiety and intrusive thoughts. A place that utilizing diet, exercise, yoga, expressive arts, spiritual development and trauma release work, that are non-profit or not predominantly profit focused in the USA?
There has to be some innovative work going on somewhere in this country, that may not be on the Internet but is happening due to someone's dedicated spiritual and personal development work. I would like to to work with them. I have many skills to offer. So if you know anything now, or you hear of anything in the future, please keep me in mind. I am a licensed mental health practitioner, who knows there are better alternatives than medication and am looking to join with others to offer a healing community or center. (I am currently in California, but willing to relocate for the right situation.)
I don't know if you know this, but Esalen Institute was originally founded by Dick Price and Michael Murphy. Dick was from a wealthy family, studying at Harvard, when he became deeply depressed. He was hospitalized by his family against his will, and given all the "top treatments" of the day, "electroshock therapy" insulin shock therapy." etc. It was all so traumatizing and barbaric, that he swore he would create something different. They were doing some very radical approaches at Esalen in the beginning. That place has since become a lot more conservative and profit oriented. I know you have to deal with financing such a place, but as one of my mentors expressed it: "money is a very important, secondary consideration." Celebrating the music in all our hearts!
Blessings on Your Journey,
Suzanne

(170) Mary Reid
Wed, 30 March 2016 11:12:10 +0000

i wonder if you are aware of Bruce Alexander, Gabor Mate , Jerome S. Bernstein, and Stephen Levine? Your work is a prize. These men helped me immensely Bruce in particular. He became my friend. You would connect in an important way that would illuminate so much of this very difficult work we must do on trauma.

(169) Ania
Thu, 24 March 2016 00:17:14 +0000

Hi Daniel, I found your and some of your work on YouTube and I find it refreshing. While there are some ideas I don't quite agree with you on, I am generally impressed with the work that you do. And actually I am writing with a (possible) strange question. I live in Los Angeles, but I am relatively new here (it's been 9 years, but it's still feels like "new"). I haven't been able to make many real friends or true connections. I have made a couple, but after reading your book, I even question how real they are. So I was wondering maybe you could connect me to some people in LA are who share your "phylosophy" (I guess you could all it that), or simply your ideas. I am not active on Facebook, so the best way would be to email me. I would really appreciate your ideas on the subject.

(168) Damien Cardamone
Sat, 19 March 2016 00:09:33 +0000

Hello, I'm writing from Australia in regards to stopping antipsychotic medication. I am looking online for places that offer support stopping taking medication, I experience side effects everyday for 2 years on Clozapine. I've been taking other antipsychotics for about 20 years. The sideffects have really hit me on Clozapine the past two years. I'm offered no support or alternatives to medication, I'm actually on a cocktail of mood stabilizers and anti depressants as well.
. I would like to slowly stop taking medication but I am looking for some strategies before I jump into it. Do you know of any literature or advice in stopping or anyone you know of in Australia?
Regards
. Damien Cardamone.

(167) gypsy
Sat, 27 February 2016 08:22:59 +0000

I recently stumbled upon your work. It gives me a little hope. I am so stuck right now. The ironic thing is that my own brother is a very well to do psychiatrist and does not talk to me. I'm very sad about that but I realise my mental illness makes him uncomfortable. Such a shame. I have been on medications for years and trying to get off of them but there is just not enough support and I am poor. Poverty and mental illness goes hand in hand it seems and without love and family it requires even more strength and determination. lately I am finding it extra hard. I have no voice. But I want to thank you for giving people hope. Thank you for making people like me feel worthwhile. You are a blessing.

(166) Nora
Thu, 18 February 2016 02:54:22 +0000

I found this site when (cant remember why!) I was looking up 'Psyche', linked to 'Bruno Bettelheim' (discredited largely I found online), Alice MIller and now you. I just wondered if you give your name anywhere or prefer to remain anonymous? Either way it is very helpful and satisfying to read of others' adult realisation of childhood abuse I find. I had a very violent father who drank a lot not sure if alchoholic maybe not it seems. He also was subjected to violence as a child I believe but I did not hear it from him directly.

I have wanted to train a a therapist for so many many years but never have the money needed which is a lot of course over a few years. I have a degree in psychology but that is not useful without further training.

I did some part time counselling courses locally years ago, and looking back, am dismayed at the superficial nature of some of the training and how many students now practice as a counsellor perhaps based on that qualification. I did a year foundation on a postgraduate psychotherapy course also (could not afford more) and saw that though better than the counselling course, it was assessed by very subjective tutors who openly preferred this or that student and openly disliked others I would like to say thsi was part of the training but it was not it was just horrible unchecked bias. The course was peopled with around a dozen wealthy postgrads many of whom just saw becoming a therapist as a way of earning a decent income for themselves when their options were limited it seems. I did learn from the course in other ways I hope. Now all I need is to start doing a lottery so I can pay for the training I would .like to do . Probably thsi is not what you were looking for from people signing your guestbook so sorry! Therapy and therapy training is for the main part for the wealthy here in the UK it seems. At least thousands of people could potentially benefit from therapy but never get to because they cannot afford it and our healthcare system rarely gives access to it. When it is available the wait can be a year or more for six sessions of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and that is all. I myself cannot afford therapy and I would love to be able to to. I will read more of your site.

Best Wishes

Nora

(165) Don St John
Tue, 2 February 2016 20:33:16 +0000
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Dear Daniel,

Your story is inspiring and like you I feel more youthful as i continue to heal the severe traumas of my childhood. I wrote a book; Healing the Wounds of Childhood: A psychologist's journey and discoveries from wretched beginnings to a thriving life. My entire personal and professional life has been about the healing journey. I would love to send you a copy of my book for your review; let me know if you would like that. Don St John, PhD.

(164) Janet Linda
Fri, 22 January 2016 15:46:15 +0000

I agree that man is more than an animal. My bipolar disease causes me to act like an animal. This hurts me deeply. Some thoughts I have are: The ability to self reflect is a gift. I causes me to reach beyond my grasp and to want more for myself and for others. Not Physical wants but connectedness. To desire to increase their desire to learn and not besatisfied with dy to day media and what is spoon fed to them from others.
I have had three major episodes. I am currently medicated on Lithium BID and 1/2 trazadone when neede at bedtime. Thankfully not often.
I am 65 and believe in neurogenisis. It is my hope that people can come to realise that to accept lies told to them in childhood are not the values they can live with today. To understand the possible reasons behind the dysfunctional toic environment is to realise it was not on purpose. I helps dissolve the hate and anger. Forgiveness is key. I found you cnnot forgive yourself untill you forgive others. Your brain wont let go of it.
i also believe it is not totaly unlike Post Traumatic Brain Injury the way in which my first depression occurred.
I give you permission to quote, paraphrse or use what I have said to help others. Feel free to email me.
Sincerely, Janet Linda

(163) Dr. Dunja Voos
Sun, 17 January 2016 04:57:51 +0000
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Dear Daniel,
your wonderful film "Take these broken brings" really impressed me. I am a psychoanalysis trainee and a blogger. I proposed your film on my blog here:
http://www.medizin-im-text.de/blog/2015/39945/take-these-broken-wings-schizophrenie-heilen-ohne-medikamente/
I hope this is ok for you.
Best wishes from Cologne, Germany
Dunja Voos

(162) dhanya haremboure
Sat, 16 January 2016 12:29:38 +0000

Dear Daniel , I found you while looking for Alice Miller one week ago. Downloaded your first book on Kindle ( not available as book on Amazon) and
read it, watched your film on Schicophrenia, read the interview of Martin Miller
(whose book I will buy) and also your long version about A.M. writings,which
I read many years ago. In short your discovery has provided excitement and
joy for me, thanks for existing in our pretty screwed-up world.
The ongoing rise of autistic and/or medicated kids shows clearly that our so
called civilisation got it all very wrong. Courage is needed to speak up,and you
did and do .Talking of abuse, it starts in the mothers womb by "scanning"
followed by "programmed date" of delivery too often via cesarian section,
followed by "fomula-feeding"vaccinatio to undermine the immature immunsystem and early "care-centers" topped by "pre-schooling
and/or hours of overwhelming TV ! All this done with "the best intentions"and
"scientifically explained".
I am born 1940 on a mountain called "Change" (Wechsel) worked as a
Travel Agent for inner Space, and tracking myself consistantly to trust my very
own gutfeeling/intuition ,my reason for writing this letter.
Be well, greetings from Dhanya

(161) Initially NO
Wed, 6 January 2016 04:09:08 +0000
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Hi Daniel,
We met in Melbourne 2013 for a viewing of your Open Dialogue film at Melbourne University. I wish to bring to your attention an artist in Vermont named Pamela Spiro Wagner. She has been exposing her experiences of the psych system in telling images the last few months and now is in Battleboro Memorial hospital, Vermont, (in her words) 'being tortured' with mechanical and chemical attacks on her body. I'm wondering if you could incorporate her story into a filmmaking project. Her artwork is very powerful. She has taken great courage to speak out. Pamela is asking you to write to News@reformer.com to get the media to investigate. She'd appreciate support. I really don't want her to lose her ability to do art, or suffer further, nor would many other people she has engaged with.

Pamela Spiro Wagner is, being condemned for her expression. Freedom of expression must be allowed in a democracy, dictators must not. Psychiatry wants to dictate what people can and can’t say, so the organised crime of white-coteries can continue. That’s not okay, nowhere near okay, it’s an outrage.

Pamela's drawings and paintings are so honest and precise. For a long time visual art was her only means of communication. The world has to wake up and realise Pamela is just as much a political prison being tortured as Ai Weiwei.

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=1188585741168785&set=a.583671808326851.143669.100000521105108&type=3&theatre

best wishes Initia.

(160) Saskia
Tue, 5 January 2016 15:41:24 +0000

Hi Daniel,
I just discovered you and listened to your talks for about 3 hours. WoW!!! So inspiring, thank you.
I worked as a body-centered therapist, without an official licence for 20 years. In The Netherlands, where I'm from, that was possible. I do have a degree from artschool, I am an artist and a dancer. That makes sense to you, I think.
Ok, although I agree with you on many aspects, I also think it's important to have theoretical knowledge. Like: Alice Miller, Yrvin Yalom e.o. I studied, by myself and did 'the inner work', through reading and workshops. One way of working with people I love is "Hakomi, body-centered psychotherapy" founded by Ron Kurtz. I recognise a lot in what you're saying in what I learned from him. Especialy: the abbility from the client to heal him- or herself, the healing relationship, and to be able as a therapist to be in a state of loving presence. Do you know "Hakomi"? And I wonderd, listening to you, did you, yourself, do any bodywork? I met so many people I worked with who had therapy for a long time, but only talking and in the end that was not enough. What they needed and wanted, although it was very unusual,to work with their body; start breathing, moving like they wanted to, permission to be angry and kick some pillows, touching, etc. I realy would like to know your point of view on this.
Greatings, Saskia


(159) Stu Brooke
Tue, 22 December 2015 11:21:30 +0000

Hi Daniel,

I came across Open Dialogue about 10 years ago (then met Jakko S in 2006), but had no means by which to spread the word, so to speak, until I came across and bought your DVD.

In the time till now my DVD (and, ahem, a few copies) must have been seen by literally hundreds of folks down this way in or near Bristol, UK, including service users, their families, and networks; students and trainees; colleagues, managers and the Chief Exec of our NHS Trust.

It has, on the whole, been received with overwhelming gratitude and admiration - both for the introduction of OD and for the film itself (psychiatric conference not so keen, mind!). It has helped inspire myself and dozens of others to peck away in campaigning to get something off the ground here in NHS land. I must have seen it 20 times and, consequently, meeting Markku Sutela at a very small OD conference in Helsinki felt like meeting my hero.

Today, I received 2 dozen applications for a Peer Worker post - the final piece of our local (South Gloucestershire) jigsaw to enable us to join the UK national POD (peer supported open dialogue - as per the NYC Parachute model) research project, which will have 7 or 8 'spoke' Trusts setting up small teams of OD practitioners to trial this approach in the UK (training to Dec '16, research project to Dec '17). We will now make it onto this fantastic project.

http://www.nelft.nhs.uk/aboutus-initiatives-opendialogue

I've expended blood, sweat and tears to make it happen, but it simply wouldn't have stood a chance without your film as an approachable doorway into a different way of thinking, practising, relating - and hoping. I, and our nascent project (both as a local trial and as part of the national POD) owe you the most enormous debt of gratitude for this... and I wouldn't be surprised if your film has done the rounds in many of the other 7 or 8 participating Trusts too.

Daniel, I don't want to overplay the importance of what you've given us - but I honestly don't think I can Thank You,

Stu Brooke
South Glos Crisis Team / Psychological Therapies

(158) Mat
Tue, 22 December 2015 04:06:43 +0000
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Hey, really nice blog. Thanks a lot for all post;s ! All the best for you :)

(157) Pierre
Fri, 4 December 2015 20:55:56 +0000

Mercci for the support

(156) son
Tue, 10 November 2015 19:56:41 +0000
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thank you for your sharing ,the site is very useful to me.

(155) Jackie Velnoskey
Thu, 5 November 2015 11:28:43 +0000

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All I am asking you at this time is if we may add you to our email list when we issue our next book promotion offers. You may at any time unsubscribe, and we will promptly cease sending you any further emails. America Star Books has been around for more than fifteen years, serving over 60,000authors. Participating in book promotion is entirely optional.

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(154) Hans Wendlandt
Mon, 2 November 2015 15:52:14 +0000

Hey Daniel,

I'm an aspiring therapist and I've seen most every video you've made and I appreciate what you do, thanks for doing it!

Best,
Hans

(153) Paul Hingston
Fri, 30 October 2015 08:48:59 +0000

Hi Daniel

Having discovered you for the first time on YouTube yesterday I wanted to get in touch from the UK and welcome your honest and insightful observations about the practice of therapy and the training of therapists. I certainly admire your courage, as Voltaire (allegedly) said 'it is dangerous to be right in matters on which the established authorities are wrong'!

Your recognition, clearly based on lots of experience, that many therapists are more troubled than their clients/patients certainly rings true from this side of the pond as well. Of course, the institutions that position the practice of psychotherapy within wider society reflect the interests of the people working in those institutions, not necessarily the people who use the services. The myth of diagnosis serves to entrench those interests, confusing the treatment of the human body as an object (rightly the domain of consensual medicine, requiring patient passivity and clinical expertise) with the exploration of human being as embodied possibility (which lies within the domain of philosophy and relies on the mutuality of dialogue).

Having trained for many years as an attachment-based psychotherapist, I agree with much of what you say regarding the legacy of traumatic childhood experience. While I would never want to say that all behaviour and subjective experience is comprehensible to the external observer, surely it is fair to say that one should never reach a conclusion about its meaning until a person's history and their social context has been fully explored. In that sense, medical-diagnostic approaches can rightly be criticised as prima facie de-humanising.

However, in the spirit of constructive dialogue and a shared desire to learn, I would like to explore a little more the tendentious notion of a 'good' therapist. I too have never yet met a practitioner/clinician who doesn't articulate the view that they are acting in a patient's best interests. This seems to be universal. The 'mad-doctors' working in 18th century 'mad-houses' said the same as they brutalised the inmates of that era.

Unfortunately, I think the simple truth is that a person choosing a therapist or reflecting on the value of a pre-existing therapeutic relationship can only rely on what you call instinct (as good a term as any). 'Goodness' is something that only exists in the eye of the beholder and cannot be objectively determined, in the same way that madness or truth are not objectively determinable.

What I find so admirable in the way that you present yourself is that it would provide a prospective client with a wealth of information prior to making contact. A person who has learnt to be suspicious of the yawning gap between what people say they do and what they actually do is therefore provided with some space to become familiar with the way you are/see yourself in the world before throwing themselves into the odd relational intensity that is created by psychotherapy.

This makes me curious about why you stopped practising and I'd be interested to know whether you found it easier to be open about yourself after you'd stopped? For my part, I. too, stopped working as a therapist for a while because I simply couldn't bear to be associated with the absurdity of the mental health movement. Do you ever think about returning to practice?

One thought I would like to challenge is the idea that therapy is inherently asymmetric in terms of power, with the patient/client being unusually 'vulnerable'. In life, we can't avoid the need to take control over the people we become involved with (I'm not referring to psychiatric coercion here, which is a civil liberties issue masquerading as medicine). I've known people with genuinely healthy and supportive backgrounds who became embroiled in dreadfully confusing and manipulative relationships. The difference is not that some people have an ability to manage how a relationship will develop but rather that, when things go wrong, they can return to the care of friends and family, rather than being thrown back into despondent, self-recriminatory isolation. Equally, as I often advise people who are despairing of ever finding a good relationship, you only need to find one person! As with everything else in life, courage, resilience and tolerance for the shortcomings of others count for a lot.

I also wonder if there are some cultural differences here. As I understand it, the US system is much more regulated and, with more treatment privately-funded, there is a greater need to create diagnoses in order for therapy to be funded as 'healthcare'. Such a system is therefore very reliant on 'technical expertise' or, as I would call it, the manufacture of pseudo-illness. Patients are therefore forced into passivity from inception, necessarily deprived of a language in which to frame their complaints.

By way of contrast, in the UK therapy is still an unregulated lay activity (although it nearly fell victim to statutory regulation a few years ago). As many therapists act for third parties (more often the National Health Service or employers, rather than insurers) clients over here often enjoy what might be considered consumer rights and are not always shy of complaining. Equally, many therapists working in the public sector are relatively uneducated and come from working class backgrounds. This means that they can be quite oppressed by employers or more articulate clients.

To my mind, patient 'vulnerability' is not therefore an inevitable function of the therapeutic relationship itself but is instead induced by wider power interests that position psychotherapy within the world. I am sure there are lots of patients who have been entirely able and willing to tell their psychiatrist exactly where to stuff the medication that has been prescribed but judiciously recognise this will only result in further coercion or deprivation of liberty. Equally, the confident and well-educated can often induce shame and inadequacy in the less fortunate, irrespective of the chair in which they are sitting.

To me, this leads to two conclusions. Firstly, I wholeheartedly endorse your view that therapists should make their training and views of the world transparent from the outset. There are many, many schools of therapy - plenty of them mutually contradictory - so this seems to be the minimum that is required to allow patients/clients to make informed choices. Personally, I also agree that therapists should be encouraged to go further and explain much more about their history and lifestyle. However, this does seem more a matter of individual preference. While I personally love your open, thought-provoking style, I'd be willing to bet that it scared the life out of some of the people who came to see you, expecting instead a reserved, neutral 'professional' - barely a person at all.

Secondly, this analysis reinforces your idea that therapy is no panacea. Kinder communities, institutions and codes of personal conduct would be infinitely preferable to expanding the mental health movement. Learning from our children (not necessarily our own biological children) and other adults is more important than diagnosing and drugging those who make us uncomfortable into conformity. This seems to me to be an essentially a political struggle. Sadly, it seems to me that the US, once the proudest defender of individual liberty and a model of the benefits of independent thought, hard work and mutual co-operation, has now embarked upon a journey into pharma-induced torpor (sorry, that does sound a bit like Donald Trump but I guess there must be some reason he is popular over there). I worry about this because where the US leads, the UK usually follows. I was depressed to see that our own Lord Layard, an economist with no real knowledge of working as a therapist, has been doing the rounds in the US expounding the usual argument that 'mental illness' does profound economic harm. As we know, the truth is the exact opposite. It is the mental health movement that inflicts terrible economic harm and personal tragedy by undermining personal autonomy and mutual co-operation.

On a final, more positive note, nearly twenty years ago I was working in S Carolina assisting attorneys working on behalf of death row inmates. At the time, it seemed inconceivable that the US would turn against the obscenity of racist, state-sanctioned killing. Now, the death penalty is in terminal decline and mums in Colorado can legally buy marijuana cakes for the weekend. How times change!!!

So keep going, my friend, our time will come!

All the best
Paul





(152) Melissa
Fri, 30 October 2015 00:39:32 +0000

Dear Daniel,

Thank you so much for "framing" your beautiful insights, for your warmth and for having no inhibitions in expressing the depth of your character.

You've helped me understand my psychiatrists a lot better :) You've given me "well-documented" cases of people genuinely overcoming severe mental anomalies, thus helping me counteract simplistic & misleading psychiatric narratives. You've served as the only official psychotherapist I've ever seen.

I've grown, on my own, a lot... in both objective & inexplicable ways... and you are one of the rare people who has actually been helpful along the way. So thank you and know that your authenticity has contributed to mine.

All the best to you,
Melissa

(151) Stephen Muires
Tue, 27 October 2015 20:00:24 +0000
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I just came across your interview with Amy Childs in 2011, about Bryn Athyn and Swedenborgians. Wonderful stuff. I am kind of amazed to find such a down-to-earth approach from yourself and from Amy.

I spent three years in Bryn Athyn. I totally agree with your evaluation on bringing up kids in this community. Our boy was 8 when we arrived and 'had to' join the church school. Had to, because I was going through theological school to become a New Church minister.

It took me a few more years before I couldn't stand it anymore. The whole thing makes a captivating story though. Which I wrote as a novel, called 'Ordained.'

Maybe you'll want to read it. See: https://muires.wordpress.com/
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The road to hell is paved with noble religious sentiments.
Tell me about it…


Ordained Part II America is about the time I spent in Bryn Athyn, PA, in theological school. It contains a fictionalized account of my experience in classes and in the college, with the different teachers who are employed there, as well as with the bishop. It contains accounts from the Experiential Learning projects we were assigned, including the counseling classes where invited guests told their stories of what had happened to them in the name of the New Church.

It contains an account of a men’s group, as well as a detailed report of my first SWET weekend.

It contains the rumors I overheard about life in Bryn Athyn, about people, about New Church history. It contains reports on the extensive medication, indoctrination and child brain washing (which we experienced first hand because our 8-year old son attended the church school).

It contains accounts of the psychopathic imbalance that the bishop demonstrated in front of us all.

It touches upon the issue of women in the ministry, and of homosexuality, of course. What do the clergy really think about gays and lesbians? And about premarital sex, about divorce and remarriage? What is the actual standpoint that is not admitted to?

Finally it touches upon dissertation writing, the ordination procedure for ministers, and the requirements that theological school put upon us. Some of these were totally reasonable, some were fucking insane.

Welcome to a novel about the New Church. Available from Amazon.




(150) Brad Randel
Mon, 19 October 2015 10:26:29 +0000
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Hi Daniel, Wishing you well... I feel you are in transition I am also In a deep way. I hope you will feel my need to talk to you. I know you are very busy. I communicate by talking if I could have 45 minutes of your time I will be very respectful. Please, I wont to get on your teem... "WE" can, how can I get my number to you?

(149) T. Reeves
Sun, 18 October 2015 16:27:13 +0000

Greetings!

I stumbled across one of your videos on YouTube. I found what you said resonating with my interpretations of my experience with therapists. I am mandated as a condition of my parole to participate in a sex offender program. I spent 12 years in prison where there was not even a superficial effort to provide help. Then, I get out 12 years later and I am mandated to be in an aggressive and intrusive program which uses such things as group bullying and polygraph tests as threats. Anyhow, due to my perspectives, background, and knowledge of certain things I believe I have been singled out by two of the therapists. This is very dangerous in my legal situation. I basically consider most of the practice terroristic bullying with thin veneer of we are thee experts and we care. I did my prison term without one disciplinary write up... basically a feat in such a volatile place...and have had a disciplinary incident free 2 1/2 years of parole. Now I am being required to go before a review due to the therapist ' telling on me' - the charge? I'm disruptive! I passed their polygraph and have been very compassionate to the others in the group - but I am a thought criminal because I have a mind or because I don't play the pretend game that the many of the successful subjects play. I am desperately looking for advice of help and truly wish that some caring organization or body would start an accountability process for these programs.

Sincerely, Tom

(148) pascale dellefield
Sat, 10 October 2015 14:00:43 +0000
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Dear Daniel Macker, LCSW
My name is Pascale Dellefield,LMFT I am a colleague in your field, and an artist with a recently published book , that I have written and illustrated titled "Being With Heart". My mission statement is " A peace in healing the world emotionally" and my company name is Health and Peace Greetings. I have also registered by own trademark with the US Trademark office. The reason I am mentioning all this is that it appears to me that we have a great deal in common. I am not afraid to speak up and do what I can to find ways to reach out to others to increase their awareness. I find that we are living in a time when consciousness is shifting, more people are interested in mindfulness practices, yoga, exercise, and holistic practices. i have been meditating for 7 years, and work in a managed care setting looking at authorizing services for the most severely and chronically ill patients. i am determined at not objectifying them, and keeping my heart of compassion open and advocating for them in a manner that is client centered. I have on numerous occasions found myself speaking out alone and no one to support me, and yet being thanked in the corridors, where no one important can really hear, for my compassion and passion for the clients. I would really like it if you took the time to look at the book that i have created. The illustrations are child like, and the text is very simple, perhaps even abstract, and yet has a great deal of depth. I am going to forward your article to my husband Ken Dellefield, Ph.D. who would very much appreciate it. He is very client centered and strong advocate of non-coercive methods regarding the client. He is also one who does not fear to speak up and speaks from a compassionate heart and one that is linked with the patient's best interest even when situations get complicated and are in crisis mode, he is not one to quickly jump to breach confidentiality out of his own fear. Thanks again Daniel for a beautifully written comprehensive well laid out article.
Gratefully,
Pascale Dellefield, LMFT
San Diego, California

(147) Canadian
Sun, 27 September 2015 23:17:52 +0000

Really enjoyed the "Bullshit" song on youtube. After the hideous side effects of twenty different medications and numerous therapies I broke free from the dark world of mental health. It can be done.

(146) Lois Achimovich
Sat, 26 September 2015 20:12:59 +0000

Hi Daniel
You may not remember me, but I was very interested in your videos and your take on psychosis. I'm in NYC now until Oct 4. I'd like to catch up with you if you have time - coffee , lunch whatever.If so, I'll send my phone number in New York. If not, hope all is well for you and thank you for your work.
Best regards
Lois Achimovich
Perth
Western Australia 25/9/2015

(145) dl
Sun, 20 September 2015 20:27:26 +0000

Hi Daniel,
Just watched your video on YouTube in critique of psychotherapy and after a lot of experience in this field as a client share your views extensively if not completely for my thoughts wandered a bit as I watched it and have to go back and see it and others you have posted on this same subject for they are so full of important information from both sides of the issue and that is what seems to give the most credibility in this subject. The power structure of it you mentioned is one of the things that I so asked myself about many times and then presented to a counselor once as a question as to why and where did that come from and how did it happen that there was a judgment position held by some people and how could it be guaranteed to be accurate? But the answer I got was a silent stare and nothing at all, and this counselor was close to retiring and had admitted to not knowing what was going on anyway and had been at times outwardly very verbally abusive as if I were the counselor and she venting at me about her own problems. I should mention here that I was told by a Vedic astrologer once that I have a natural kind of aptitude for psychology which explains I guess why I've found myself on the receiving end of a lot of this kind of behavior throughout my life with people venting at me and my own empathy naturally kicking in, not so good as a child and so that is another story.
You made so many good points about the impossibility of this being a really hard science and more of an art form that seems it needs to be exposed more and more for the power of this profession is something that has what seem to be very serious consequences in the lives of millions of people all over the world and seems veiled a lot out of what I have seen as a desperation for answers and nothing else stepping up to give them so it is the last resort in the West generally for such problems as are dealt with in other ways in other cultures to good effect, though there are definitely some things that can be addressed by psychotherapy very well it seems. I told that counselor that it seemed to me since she admittedly had no answers then the best that psychotherapy could do was to triage the issues and give some outside description of the dynamics of a situation but as far as healing that was not going to happen because there were no real answers for solving the problems after they were identified, nothing other than logistical things that might be suggested but that deep healing was going to take something more like an Indian Saint could do. What you said about childhood trauma as the basis for the trauma that is what drives most people into psychotherapy makes sense but the further one goes into that the more one finds even deeper causes that are as I have said above only addressed by the modalities of Saints as far as I have seen and experienced. I suppose a combination if one can find it of a good counselor you very aptly described as being vulnerable in a good way and as you mentioned the leveling of the power in the relationship to be more on equal footing so that there is an interplay of mutual respect and added in an Indian Saint are things that make the most sense to me. Demystifying the hype there is that has put psychotherapy and psychiatry where they are today and showing them for their limitations is something I would sincerely like to see more of and I think is sorely needed in the world today.

(144) Big Larry
Sun, 13 September 2015 16:48:58 +0000

Here's a tip for you folks: There is currently a flurry of interest in the relationship between gratitude and morality, frequently quoting Cicero's dictum that gratitude is the mother of all virtue (=morality). Freud concluded that morality is an illusion, and this view explains why Freudian therapy is dangerous to one's morale.
Morality is behavior influenced by the Golden Rule, that is, do not do to others what you would not like done to you. This is a natural intuition, unless a person does not have a normal prosocial childhood.
You folks can take these ideas and run with them.

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