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Amanda Amanda from Austin wrote on February 20, 2019 at 1:09 am:
I am so glad that I came across your videos. I am trying to heal a lot of trauma and I feel so misunderstood by my therapist. I have been going back and forth wondering if I am making the right choice by ending our relationship but I am sure now that I am, He has been pushing forgiveness onto me for the last few sessions and I feel so unheard. I told him that tonight. He has a daughter and I think his issues are spilling over and I no longer feel safe with him to process things. So anyways, I think you are absolutely brilliant, human in every sense of the word and I wish I could call you my therapist. Best of luck to you!
Jan Jan from Little Rock wrote on February 19, 2019 at 3:01 pm:
I listened to your youtube about leaving behind the field of psychotherapy. I am going through my own disenchantment with the field. It was very validating for me to hear your thoughts as I seem surrounded by practitioners that I cannot talk to about my disenchantment. I have been doing a lot of journaling and following my dreams, taking some art classes, and plotting my exodus. I appreciate your thoughts. Blessings to you.
Judith J Bentley Judith J Bentley from RICHMOND VA wrote on February 13, 2019 at 8:32 pm:
Hi, Daniel. Just having found you and watched many of your wonderfully, revealing and insightful vidoes on YouTube has had the positive effect of feeling you would have been a great therapist and delightful person to have known as a friend. I admire your courageous openness in sharing your life's experiences and your thoughtful reflections on their meaning for you, especially childhood trauma which we all have suffered. I admire the rich life you have chosen for yourself--your world travels, learning & speaking other languages, your many friends . I particularly applaud your analysis of Alice Walker. I am 73, retired from the teaching & legal professions. Wanted to be a child advocate. Was told: you won't have any cases Children don't have any rights. Celebate & single since 1980. A life-long learner, writer & poet. 40 yrs of therapy with 4 therapists & 4 psychiatrists. On meds but still depressed (treatment resistant brain). Diagnosed complex PTSD & MDD from child sexual abuse lasting from 2 till age 16 when I threatened to run away from home of pedophile/ sociopath father-a Methodist minister in VA now deceased, and narc mother who molested my brother, both deceased. Divorced from parents & estranged narc sister.still living, I was a musician too--piano, organ, flute, piccolo, guitar. In teen years banged out Shostokovitch & Rachmaniff on my antique Steinway ivories to deal with my anger. No longer play. B.A. & M.A. in English &;Speech from UK & GSU. Made it through 2 yrs of law & took bar review. Had to quit to take care of disabled dyslexic daughter as single parent. Though I was accepted in 1974 as a contributing poet .to the Breadloaf Writer's Conference in Middlebury, VT, had never published or given readings. Your videos gave me the courage to give my first reading at a small gathering of poets last night 2.12.2019. 2 poems allowed for each of 10 poets. Here are some lines from one I read titled: "B" IS FOR THE BLUES. This is no balderdash. This is no baloney. This is as bare as a beggar. I was born in Babylon, A beast of burden. I was bastardized from birth Without a bill of rights. They said they were my benefactors. They said they were benevolent. But they badgered and bantered me. They made me kiss the Blarney stone and baptized me into the blues. Now I am binary. Now I am bittersweet. **************** Thank you for inspiring me! My new hobby: studying astronomy & astrophysics.
Kelli Kelli from Portland wrote on February 6, 2019 at 4:07 pm:
Dear Daniel, I am beyond appreciative of your work. You don’t mince words and you get straight to the point, diving deep into truth. At 42 years old I am still learning. Your YouTube videos found me at just the right timing along my journey of healing. Our world needs more people like you. Thank you for being a trailblazer. Thank you for your bravery.
Debbie Debbie from Oregon wrote on February 6, 2019 at 11:51 am:
Just thought I'd stop by. I watched a few of your videos. You express in words your thoughts on things pretty well. I'm not good with words or expression. Also, I'm depressed all the time. I don't feel apart of this world, so I think about eternity in the next life. It's a very strange feeling indeed. Take care.
Alan Alan from Madison wrote on January 27, 2019 at 8:55 pm:
Finishing "Breaking from your Parents" book right now. Great peace and resonance to be reading this. I broke with family August 2018. Has been liberating and frightening and many things. I am finishing a MA program for Social Work. When I started the degree I was in a very different place. So much has shifted since then I have found it hard and often meaningless to continue the degree. Yet, it is last semester so...onward, I guess. Every bit of my life was infested by the emotional incest and cult like drug trance I was conditioned into since my early childhood (me as the drug of choice for family to base their sense of self-hood and validation) that separating from that has opened up a major void. The old identity is gone, or on its death bed. This MA degree, too--nearly $20,000 into it and 2 years of commitment--seems based on my needing to rescue others and sacrifice my needs for others. I feel deep commitment to heal and to spiritually seek. I can't continue to live this way; 32 years as a kind of undead blood-supply for the world. I feel close to breakdown/breakthrough but must stay dissociated and distracted until the degree is over. What comes next? Ayahuasca ceremony seems right. Live in a spiritual community where I can collapse and let the rebirth of ego death move through me. I want to face this fear, these wounds, this trauma embedded in me, this pain in my intestines; this world-weariness; this numbness. Any thoughts? Thank you for the book and your courage.
Alvin Keyes Alvin Keyes wrote on January 27, 2019 at 12:56 pm:
Hi Daniel. I have no website. I just want to say congratulations to you for claiming your freedom. There is so much more to say. However, I am pleased to know that there are others who are willing to challenge the "norms" of our mental health system and expose it for its lack of empathy for those really needing help. At any rate, much peace to you and enjoy your travels and life-enhancing endeavors. I try to do the same as a photographer who also travels when I get a chance. AK
Richard Abrahamson, Jr. Richard Abrahamson, Jr. from Fort Lauderdale wrote on January 23, 2019 at 10:17 pm:
I miss Your new Videos. I'm a Loyal Watcher. Thanks for Your ideas & helping support. Peace, Richard...
Michael Michael from Madison Wisconsin wrote on January 22, 2019 at 7:08 pm:
Dear Daniel, I am overwhelmed with gratitude for “finding” you on YouTube. I am just now beginning to process my life’s trauma with a therapist a bit further along in the same process in his life. The book “The Body Keeps the Score” will be a part of my process as will regularly listening to you on YouTube for which I am extremely grateful, thank you. In the past 8 years I have experienced traumatic loss capping what I now realize has been a lifetime of trauma. My recent losses include those of my mother, partner, father, cat, career, and home. Those are on top of devastating bullying for being gay by friends, fellow students, teachers and family, among many others for over 50 years. I suddenly find myself alone with myself. Single and celibate. Sound familiar? Between my work with myself, my therapist, appropriate books and your deeply insightful wisdom I hope to heal. In my deepest core I identify as a pianist, having been strongly drawn to the piano since I was 5 and I will be 65 in April. Thank you for your messages online which will aid me in this difficult journey and process. By the way, I adore Tchaikovsky 5 among many other musical gems written by genius composers who were/are also horrific individuals. The “MeToo” movement has brought this long-standing issue to the forefront. Highly respected music critics have written about the abuse committed by highly respected musicians and how that is affecting their musical library choices. But I digress. In closing, all I can say is thank you, dear Daniel.
N. Omord N. Omord wrote on January 17, 2019 at 5:45 pm:
I discovered you recently on Youtube. I have barely scratched the surface on the material you offer and I'm... astonished. Your experiences sound so similar to mine. Except I never got out of the pit of despair my family pushed me down to. Now I'm beginning to understand. Now I can start to work on the tools to get me out of this hell. Thank you. Why aren't more people talking about these things??
Nancy Zhao Nancy Zhao from Mpls wrote on January 7, 2019 at 12:30 pm:
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Nancy Zhao Nancy Zhao from Mpls wrote on January 7, 2019 at 12:27 pm:
I love your blogs because you are so authentic. I am 65 years old. I have been working as a nurse for about 45 years. I am proud and happy that I have spent almost every day loving people trying to make their lives little more bearable. BUT I should have been what I wanted to be, An artist.........As I have always been obsessed with Philosophy and the search for understanding this thing we call reality. — Now I am retired and unfathomably depressed that I did not do more with my life. And that nobody understands my existential crises. Would you mind if I lived vicariously through yours?
barb barb from orwell wrote on December 29, 2018 at 8:54 pm:
thank-you for the much wisdom you share,I also have a great passion to see more people come free from the medications they take and still arent well,,Medication truly is abused big time in america,,I for one have started taking a pure full spectrum cbd oil with great results,,There has got to be a better way!
Ellaya Jean-Patrick Ellaya Jean-Patrick from st pierre wrote on December 18, 2018 at 5:47 am:
Thank you very much for your work Daniel especially to give voice to the victims of the mental health system god bless you!
Kathleen Kathleen from Bournemouth, UK wrote on December 13, 2018 at 7:32 am:
Hello Daniel, Just found you on YouTube, such a delight to listen to you talk, especially on childhood trauma and how it disconnects you from yourself, how it silences you. So many things you talk of, I have personal experience of working through and coming to the same conclusion. So keep talking, keep making videos, keep shining... a great many silent ones may come out and be seen and heard, as a result. Kate xxx
Eva Eva from Varde, Denmark wrote on December 11, 2018 at 6:12 am:
Hey Daniel Just want to say thank you. I love your reflections and hounersty in your videos. So relieved hearing your views on therapy, what works and what doesn't work in your personal opinion.. It brought some really quality reflections to my own perspective across the sea.. Thanks for beeing yourself! Now I know, that there is someone out there like-minded within the therapeutic field, or well, not anymore, but your reflections on the topic brings value. Thank you.. and Merry Christmas very soon
Brendan Brendan from New York wrote on December 10, 2018 at 6:10 pm:
Thank you for putting up your videos. Having watched a healthy portion of channel, your surgical breakdown of the mental health system, your courageous expounding of parental relations and surrogate partners symptoms, down to the conscious downshift of a lower register use has paralleled my life almost to a T. Thank you again for putting your videos up. You're not alone.
sharon goodwin sharon goodwin from wallace wrote on December 4, 2018 at 2:14 pm:
you certainly were tested. this is a superb video! confirms what l know confirmation the grand finale being Grace. truly rich video
Michelle Michelle from Rutherford wrote on November 26, 2018 at 11:11 am:
Daniel, thank you so much for sharing your intelligence and your brave, wild heart ❤
Sarah Sarah from Milwaukee wrote on November 25, 2018 at 11:38 am:
Hi, I want to say Thankyou Daniel for sharing your personal struggles and work and staying true to yourself. I am breaking from my family partly at this time, there is much anger fear and backlash coming my way. It is strange because I know that I am simply establishing boundaries. I’m not trying to hurt anyone. I am on the path to wellness and wholeness but my family insists it can’t be if they’re not included/the ones directing it. God bless you, you are a beacon of light when it feels very dark and alone.
Michael Michael from Toowoomba, Australia wrote on November 22, 2018 at 8:38 pm:
Thank you Daniel. Wild Truth is a valuable and generous resource. Much appreciated.
Inga Inga from Moscow wrote on November 21, 2018 at 6:06 am:
Dear Daniel! These last days as I found your website I am watching your videos with great pleasure. They help me clarify more what goes on in my own process of growth and gives me support I surely need. My experience as pretty much close to yours, for example I am a trained psychotherapist, though I did not work much as one. And I can totally relate to your experience as a psychotherapist. But I really don’t want to overwhelm you with my thoughts and my experiences, I think you have a lot of people who write to you, you have enough of it :)) My real motivation to write to you is to share with you something that helped me a great deal. I am currently in the process of separating from my parents. I can relate to your observation that it’s incredibly difficult and not accepted by the society. And that we have our own parents inside, we’ll, I still do. I’d like to share what helps me tremendously to heal, to see things clearly, to become my true self and to separate myself way easier from my family. 1. Understanding that at least one of them was a narcissist. And it is a common suggestion for children of narcissistic parents to go no contact with the narcissist. Have you ever read/watched videos about NPD. I really recommend you give it a try. 2. Some methods of meditation help me tremendously. I’d say these three: Emotional release, Metta meditation and Vipassana. I don’t want to write too much, but if you’re interested and ask me questions, I’ll gladly tell you why exactly i think they help and can give you some guided meditations that help me, for example. I any case, I give you a real big hug and I’m glad that you exist. May your life be inspiring and healthy and full of growth! Inga
Stephen Stephen from Flint wrote on November 14, 2018 at 7:16 pm:
I stumbled across your work on YouTube the other day. Watched The 'Critique of Jordan Peterson' Video. I find your 'Environment inducing behavioral dynamics' theory to be correct because it was a thought I had always had myself. I study Mathematics from home which led me into doing a lot more research into Clinical Psychology and The Neurological Sciences. If you ever have the time to discuss the topic further I'd appreciate hearing someone else's opinion. Thank You for the Work,
Vince Vince from San Francisco wrote on November 11, 2018 at 6:40 pm:
Hi Daniel. I stumbled upon your block and your work when I was searching for Alice Miller on YouTube. I must say your critique of Alice Miller, especially the interview you did with Martin Miller, has caused my faith in Alice Miller's preaching to crumble. I was abused severely by my parents and paternal relatives for the first 15 years of my life and they continued to try and control me for the next 15. My therapist has been working with me on my trauma by referencing to Alice Miller's work. After reading your critique (which echoed with my own thoughts greatly at various points), I am growing more and more afraid to go down this path. If Alice lived a dubious life, could I really trust her? I cannot deny I have been feeling better but this shadow of fear is growing to cloud me more and more. Thank you
Claire Chang Claire Chang wrote on November 6, 2018 at 11:38 am:
Writing again here just to say loving your new set videos. Truth thank you! Maybe a decade + after I biding your content, you continue to provide actual help, however variously defined.
Vicky Vicky from Muskogee wrote on November 2, 2018 at 9:15 am:
Thank you Daniel for your great video on forgiveness and your other videos! I am on board with what you said about forgiveness. I will never forgive my parents and my cousins sexual abuse of me growing up. Telling someone to forgive is another form of gaslighting and tyranny. I agree with you that those who push forgiveness refuse to deal with their own trauma. Why would someone want to forgive those who people committed heinous crimes? My parents had no remorse for the damage I suffered.
Erin Erin from Toronto wrote on October 30, 2018 at 5:07 pm:
Just a question: I watched your video on why you quit being a therapist. And I am one of those clients you spoke of who, though in the most pain, have been rejected by therapists because I have the least money (on Disability). So, after two psychiatric stays, I've been delivered right back into the hands of my family who harmed me in the first place. Terrible, terrible irony. So my question: How do I keep from jumping out a window?
Fi Schofield Fi Schofield from London, UK wrote on October 24, 2018 at 8:57 am:
Hello Daniel, I appreciate your pure music and fabulous videos, and your courage and honesty in challenging and illuminating the injustice, ignorance and confusion to be found within the mental health arena. Lots needs to change, and I see you as a peer leader. I hope that you will continue to have many many followers and collaborators, and that lasting change for the better will also follow you - indeed, catch up with you. As for me, I hope that I will find the courage to continue my struggle to be open, honest and courageous. I hope to continue to look to your web resource for encouragement and support. Best wishes, Fi
Matthew Matthew wrote on October 21, 2018 at 1:02 pm:
Hello! I just listened to a podcast on Mad In America where you were interviewed by Will Hall. You spoke as to why you worked with people who were labeled psychotic or schizophrenic. I've always struggled to answer that same question when asked during a job interview. I, like you, can relate to the underdogs, the rebels, and to the one's that have been put down and stepped on. I recently graduated with a Master's in Counseling Psychology from California Institute of Integral Studies, which is a very progressive school. My last year as an intern I worked in a step down or transitional home for people with "Severe and Persistent Mental Illness". I loved it and hated it. I hated seeing how the system created a revolving door for the community's most vulnerable. I hated seeing people given two options, take your meds, or get out. That was abuse, and I actually filed an Elder Abuse claim against the supervisor. I too was not popular at this site. Most of the people I worked with were homeless, so they’d end hospitalized, medicated, "stabilized/ tranquilized", then released back out on to the streets, all to repeat again. What I loved about the work was developing a connection with the residents. Basically the only "technique" I used was empathic listening, along with believing them. I didn't tell them that what they were experiencing was not real. I invited them to describe what they were seeing or hearing. I remained curious and open. The feedback I received was profound and precious. Most said the same thing, that they had never felt more heard or listened to. After listening to your experiences in that interview, I knew I had to try and contact you. I want to do therapy with people who have "psychosis". Do you know of any organizations where this can be done? I am willing to travel! Or maybe a private practice? I have very few hours towards licensure, and as I write this, maybe the best thing to do is work for the least re-traumatizing organization so that I can get my license and start my own private practice. I know you got burnt out doing the work. I expect that may happen to me as well. Thanks for doing the work you did, and for also sharing your experience. It's been inspiring. Warmly, Matthew
Es El Jay Es El Jay from Berkeley wrote on October 16, 2018 at 3:30 pm:
thank you.