I left an entry not that long before this ,but I have to write another one now.Daniel ,I am so glad you are in the world ,I get so much comfort from your videos. Sometimes when I'm feeling triggered or traumatized I will do a pot luck and choose one of your videos and put it on to play ,it's comforting to hear you voice. Not only that though .....I will watch one of your videos through again sometimes and get so much more meaning from it and realise that 'you have hit the nail on the head' about something ,when I didn't realise it before.I think ,if we are lucky ,there are people out there in the big wide world who will give you the gift of mirroring you back to yourself .I have had a very intense experience recently where I started a new job and so many things happened there it was profound and magical.I got so much mirroring back of myself (especially from one person in particular) a lot of it was very ,very painful ,but I believe from the pain you can grow. I had so many harsh things happen and such a lot of intense mirroring ,it was a steep learning curve.I also had a very painful 'cutting off' and rejection by somebody. I have been learning so much about myself though. I have just watched your video 'An analysis of jealousy' .I thought until recently I didn't suffer from jealousy at all ,I think I was thinking more along the lines of 'when you are jealous because a boy you likes talks to a girl' ,like school playground stuff,I have always though 'hhmmffhh ...well I'm not a jealous person'.My recent painful experiences have caused me to dig inside myself and I realise (as you explain in the video) ,that jealousy is much more complex than that ,as you say ,there is a sense of entitlement because one believes the world owes back to the parts of ourselves that were never loved ,we are in denial that ,yes,unfortunately, we now need to attend to this ourselves and take responsibility for these parts of ourselves because 'tough luck' the world doesn't owe it to us ,I never realised before that I was acting this out on the outside world ,and that it was a kind of deep jealousy of others! So much clarity and healing ! You help me to process a lot of things and I find so much wisdom buried within your videos.Also ,as you say in the same video ,the uncovering of our true selves is so precious and valuable ,and once we do that ,and start living as our authentic selves there is no longer any need for jealousy