Your most recent video on sex positivity spoke to me. I agree with you, I was taught to protect myself, to acquire consent and all that good stuff and I had agreed… and especially recently I was very honest and communicative about what I struggle with to my partners… yet I just allowed other traumatized adults to re-traumatize me… and perhaps I also hurt others as well. I had no idea I was readily handing other people, effectively strangers, they key to my undoing. I hadn’t realized I was ‘acting out’ my trauma in a sexual manner at all… I was in pursuit of love and affection—what my childhood lacked. My first instinct is to say I didn’t understand so much, about my own trauma and the world… I want to know what true healing is now, and for certain I won’t find my healing in another person. I’ve lost all desire towards sexual relationships and people in general—that may change with therapy… However again this video is very timely… I will looking at sexuality and the sex positive space VERY differently, as now I understand the severity of my own trauma and the trauma of others… Thank you for your work. Cheers!