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Daniel Johnston Daniel Johnston from Red Lake wrote on June 29, 2023 at 5:35 am
Congrats on 100,000 subs , you deserve , we deserve, peace bro
Roe Roe from Middletown wrote on June 27, 2023 at 10:16 pm
For some reason YouTube suggested your video. And I thought I'd hear a little bit. I liked that it wasn't a viral video and it wasn't big production. Well I've been hearing a lot of what you have to say and it makes me feel more at ease with who I am. I've been working on a memoir but it is more about the insight than the events of my life journey so far. I worried that I was sounding too negative about society or too 'notes from the underground' but hearing your consistent perspective and reading some of the comments has been empowering. I wonder if there are events or festivals that you have found free minded people who are grounded in acknowledging the world we live in without the safety goggles which defense mechanisms of delusions provide. Also that those types of gatherings are not a cult recruitment lol there's that.
Ana Ana wrote on June 27, 2023 at 12:55 pm
Hi Daniel, I am so glad that I’ve found you on youtube! The first video that I watched was about you quitting your job as a therapist, to be honest it scared me a little bit because I want to become a psychotherapist myself. I’m writhing this to thank you for just being on this planet:) You are really inspiring me to be a kind person. When I’m watching your videos I see your love for people and it brings me so much joy. Thank you!
m m from somewhere far wrote on June 27, 2023 at 9:26 am
Hi Daniel, I serendipitously discovered your youtube channel at exactly the right time in my life. Against overwhelming odds, and following incessant and brutal psychological sabotage on my mother's part, I've secured an incredible career opportunity in NYC and am in the process of moving across the world for that purpose. What struck me the most about your message is how I seemed to already know a good part of it, on some level, but I needed someone else to say it first. My sense of reality was so warped that I didn't have the confidence to trust my own perceptions (much like how you felt that your mother was trying to "screw you up"). So I failed to exercise good judgment in my relationships, as an adult, and was further traumatized as a result. But I took concrete decisions and I know it in my gut -- that very gut I long thought I'd lacked -- that I will never look back. Thank you for being a part of this experience. My life will never be the same. On another note, I learned from your videos that you live(d) in the city and am wondering if you can point me to any useful resources to support adults recovering from parental narcissistic abuse. I cycled through several meds and therapists for nearly a decade now, but I'd like to move away from all that. What I feel I truly need is to simply dialogue with other people with similar experiences. Any pointers would be much appreciated. Thanks again for everything.
Mary Mary from Melbourne, Australia wrote on June 27, 2023 at 7:20 am
Dear Daniel, Discovered your videos today, and so appreciate you sharing your experiences and understandings. The mind is complex and not a source of peace. Fortunately, there is something MORE to us. WITHIN us. And it is GOOD and BEAUTIFUL and FULFILLING. It is our true SELF. There is a song - I am not the body Nor the mind I am not of this earth I am something divine That ‘I’ is what we seek in various ways. It is within us. To be EXPERIENCED. To KNOW. I am not a psychologist. Nor a truster in spirituality. My good wishes to You, Mary
Drew Drew wrote on June 27, 2023 at 3:01 am
Hi Daniel. I was wondering if you could make a video discussing more in depth how the media normalizes toxic relationships, abuse, and unhealthy coping mechanisms as a result of trauma. When I was a young girl I grew up with artists like Nicki Minaj and Ariana Grande being very popular at school and developed a terrible self esteem due to feeling like my only worth was how sexually appealing I am to men. Check out some of their lyrics and music videos if you're not familiar, but I'm sure other artists with similar issues will come to mind. It would be interesting to know your thoughts on how material so easily available (and sometimes directly marketed) to younger audiences keeps trapped in shallow ideas about life and what will make us happy.
Laura D. Laura D. from Las Cruces wrote on June 25, 2023 at 9:21 pm
I am only now beginning to watch your videos and delve into your work. I can tell right off the bat that this is what I have been seeking for a very long time. I have always thought I am a terrible person for being an only child and wanting distance between myself and my parents.....but I can see I am not a bad person. I will be writing more as I dig further into your work. It's not even a coincidence that I'm studying for my master's in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. Thank you for your candor and courage!!
Esther Hecker Esther Hecker from Longview wrote on June 25, 2023 at 12:16 pm
You sir are one in a million
Rafaela Rafaela from Sao Paulo, Brasil wrote on June 21, 2023 at 10:01 am
Having suffered several traumas, received multiple diagnosis and taken meds that never help, all i can say is how refreshing it is to see a (former) therapist be so honest and touch upon rarely discussed topics like you do! I never had a therapist i really connected with and it made me wish that , somehow, you were still working in the field. I have had very expensive therapists and they were even worse than cheaper ones. Now i cant afford much, and the fact that you wouls accept people who couldnt pay much, touched me really deep. sending love from Brasil ?
Sara Sara wrote on June 21, 2023 at 5:43 am
Hi Daniel, I am listening to your video titled "Why I Quit Being a Therapist -- Six Reasons by Daniel Mackler" and I am touched by your compassion (minute 15:50). I pray your tummy is a lot better now, but if it's not pretty please look into "grounding" or "earthing". This is basically putting your bare feet on earth. Sleep on a grounding mat. I hope this helps. Thank you for what have done for our brothers and sisters. Sara
HKVN HKVN from SF Bay Area wrote on June 20, 2023 at 8:37 pm
Thank you Daniel for your youtube work and sharing your journey. Just bought Breaking From Your Parents as that is the most important issue that I am dealing with right now (early 30's). It is incredibly tough too because they are ill. Sometimes, I imagine that I should just wait a few more years and hopefully be at peace. I guess we will see if my plans change after viewing and watching your video on it. I wish the best for you and other commenters.
Bence Bence from (Hungary) wrote on June 18, 2023 at 5:01 pm
500.! 🙂 Dear Daniel, I just found your YouTube channel - your content is very interesting! I like your videos, your ideas, your opinions, your deep thoughts!! One question: what do you think about psychedelics? Br, Bence
Jenny Rossi Jenny Rossi from Helsinki wrote on June 18, 2023 at 2:22 pm
Thank you for everything that you do.
Daniel Johnston Daniel Johnston from Red Lake wrote on June 17, 2023 at 7:15 am
glad to see the growth of your channel Daniel ... all the best
Trevor P., age 21 Trevor P., age 21 from Huntington West Virginia wrote on June 15, 2023 at 12:19 pm
I love you, so much. 🙂
Rudy Lawler Rudy Lawler wrote on June 14, 2023 at 10:45 pm
What are some solid way (or not often appreciated ways!) to help those in my life who provide therapeutic services, whether licensed or not? Thank you - I appreciate your work and time
ThisAccount ThisAccount wrote on June 13, 2023 at 2:17 pm
Thank you for sharing. I have a bit better perspective on my responsibility as a father for my children's childhood.
Natasha Natasha from Adelaide, Australia wrote on June 11, 2023 at 11:59 pm
You have a beautiful soul, thankyou so much for putting yourself out into the world, I've just discovered you upon my journey of going within in order to change and create the outer world, I love you ??
Kathleen Cole Kathleen Cole from Washington, DC wrote on June 11, 2023 at 2:30 pm
I get it.
Claire Williams Claire Williams from Bristol wrote on June 7, 2023 at 7:56 am
You are Amazing Daniel. Love & Gratitude ?
Ewelina Ewelina from Norwich wrote on June 5, 2023 at 7:16 am
Hello Daniel, I really appreciate your videos. Could you one day do one on psychology of one-uppers? Especially in family settings? Also, parent favouritism of specific children? Many thanks, Ewelina.
Lina Lina wrote on June 4, 2023 at 1:32 am
Hi Daniel! Thank you so much for being yourself, recording your videos and writing and selling your books! It helps me somehow, just listening to a person like you, as much as it can help in the absence of therapy and good people around or connections. I've read "Five Weeks in China" and it was such a joyful encaptivating read! I also have another book to finish and I'm planning to read more of your books.
Nancy Nancy from Winona wrote on June 2, 2023 at 5:40 pm
Hi Daniel, Would you be able to do a video on the following topic. My brother is very verbally abusive and cold to his wife. Our parents raised us basically like livestock. I told her that I believe he treats her so badly because she must prove her love for him. If he treated her well and she loved him, that would prove nothing, but if he abuses her and she still loves him and does not abandon him, she must truly love him. It's the only way he can truly be sure. He will not put on what he sees as an act like he had to get a few morsels of "love" from our parents. In essence he is saying to our parents (and maybe himself) that they must have been wrong to not love him or think he was good enough because even at his worst, his wife still loves him. At his best, his parents did not, so he's not going to try that tactic again. It's a win-win for him because even if she leaves him, he will be able to blame it on the abuse, not on him being unlovable, and he can keep on denying his childhood trauma and pain.
Alafair Alafair from Orange County, Calif wrote on June 2, 2023 at 4:27 pm
You are so good at putting everything I think and feel into words. One of my new favorite people! Alafair xo
Sea Sea from Honolulu wrote on May 31, 2023 at 9:33 pm
I appreciate your existence Daniel. You remind me so much of Peter K. Gerlach. In ways where your purpose lets me know that despite my emptiness, I still have myself.
S S from London wrote on May 31, 2023 at 10:46 am
Thank you for your video on "they did their best." The detail was very productive for me. Moreover. I've recently begun working with a certain fast-growing therapuetic sector where the phrase is a platitude. It's sometimes followed by, "once you've properly done this work [and even "have an open heart"] then you'll understand." Which feels dismissive at best. But I'm only just starting out. So I'm really glad to refer to you.
Dianne Dianne from Melbourne wrote on May 31, 2023 at 6:34 am
Also, i would like to add to my previous comment, by Dianne, as u will see my previous comment below, Schizophrenia and diseases like cancer do not actually exist. They are a Construct, created by the medical system. Because when we take it back in time, disease like schizophrenia and cancer barely used to exist. They were created by big pharma and the medicalization of every day Life. People were healthier during the Renaissance . What does a Pet Cat do if it has Cancer? It goes and dies underneath a Tree. Theres no reason why humans cant be the same. Its all because Big Pharma wants to make money. Sociey has more than enough abaility to deal with peoples health problems without any medicalisation. The medical system had a ripple down effect on all the other industries in society, causing them all to become more corrupt, and cause climate change aswell. It was not the medical system that caused people to get taller and healthier at the end of the 20th Century... It was Evolution Itself. As the longer humans have been allowed to live and procreate on the Earth, the taller and healthier they tend to get, over time. Alas, we have seen huge numbers of small and poxy children being born in the last few years. Really weedy and small. With the prolification of the medical industry. We live in a world where someone without any pre existing mental health condition can enter the psychiatric system and get whipped on to loads of drugs, and MADE to have sever Schizophenia and get given all sorts of bad treatements. No it did not end or get better with the closures of the asylums. Iatrogenic Abuse is the Apple of a Doctors Eyes. It was when society started putting control of human peoples health in other humans peoples Hands, that society started to become less healthy overall, and weaker health patterns emerge.
Dianne Dianne from Melbourne wrote on May 31, 2023 at 4:46 am
Hi Daniel. What i have to say is the height of iatrogenic abuse. And sorry im mixing that with having had a couple of wines, because i have to cope with the pain. Basically, i am relating to your video clip the anti-psychiatry song and the one about psychiatric drugs. Very catchy. Antipsychotics are responsible for over 99% of the psychotic behaviour we see in society and less than 1% of psychotic behaviour comes from an underlying condition. Antipsychotics are so so so so adddictive, and even when there is an underlying condition, the medication is 1000 times worse. And it is JUST DISGUSTING. The withdrawl mimics an actual underlying condition, so the person winds up in the system for the rest of their lives. I was 20 years old when this happened to me. I was the most social, emotional, normal and friendly out of all my friends and family, yet i was the one that got put on all the Pharmaceuticals. There was something very healthy about me. And all it takes is that twinkle in a persons eye. Doctors want people to be healthy, they just don't want people to be healthier than themselves. Aint that the truth. And now im going through intensive involuntary primal scream therapy in a chair with blinkers, bits or wings of the chair that cut out my peripheral vision, so they can shut me down more easily. Because they were jealous of my healthy appearance and my good personality. Subsequently, Another family member of mine was drastically iatrogenically abused. And it was a child. Doctors dont have the slightest bit of interest in the Welfare of a Child. Especially they do not care about the Welfare of an attractive child. A doctor loves doing iatrogenic damage. Its what they thrive on. Doctors want people to be healthy, they just dont want people to be healthier than themselves. Aint that the truth. Also i might add that.. Everything we need for Perfect Health, can be found in the goodness of Nature and the bodies own Immune System. Medical system and pharmaceuticals are Just Money Makers. The most healthy people in the world are people that choose to abstain from the medical system, people who come from places in parts of South America and Africa, for isntance, where they have the biggest strongest bodies and healthiest whitest teeth. The pockets of the globe untouched by western medicalisation tend to still be the healthiest. Like parts of Peru or the Amazon. Personally i think doctors should reconsider their vocation and become Butchers at a meat shop instead, selling bits of meat that they slice and Dice Up.
Ana Ana wrote on May 30, 2023 at 5:40 pm
Just passing by to say hi! Ana, from Brazil.
Bonnie Bonnie from La Verne, CA wrote on May 29, 2023 at 1:34 pm
Dear Daniel, Despite my exceptionally limited exposure to media, I managed to stumble upon your YouTube video. That lead me to listen to more. As a life long truth seeker raised in endless dysfunction, I easily embraced all that you had to offer by way of insight. Soon to be 55 I find myself living alone (completely) for the first time in my life. It is absolutely liberating! I will be opening the vault, if you will, on all the journals I have written since I was 12 years old. My aim is to deeply reflect (much like I have seen you do on a few videos) the differentials in what I wrote back then and how the memories surface now. What were the things I said to myself back then to make it through and what are the things I tell myself now to make sense of it all??? I left my home town when I was 18 and never went back -- that played a huge part in my ability to heal my own wounds. Sadly, my siblings chose a different path, however, that allows me to gauge my own progress. At times life has felt exceptionally isolating, but my writing has been my saving grace for as long as I can remember. I feel even more inspired to explore these journals and absorb the insight about myself they offer me. It was so heart warming and endearing to listen to parts of your story. I share your vison of a world that learns how to process and digest our traumas and heal from them. I have been trying to understand my own trauma my whole life in an honest way. The journals prior to 1990 have been tucked away for many years, the courage to open them and face one documented tragic event after another is a little intimidating, but I am more than up for the challenge. There will be no great narrative to follow, nor am I looking to do some magnificent storytelling -- I am looking to put all that to rest and move on with my life as light and as enlightened as possible -- understanding who I truly am to the deepest depths I possibly can. Thank you for sharing and allowing the insight from your experiences to nourish so many others. I appreciate what you have shared it touched my soul. Take care. Sincerely, Bonnie PS. I cannot even believe that I am writing this given my general avoidance of all social platforms. I just thought you, Daniel, should know how powerful and appreciated your words are. 🙂