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Agnus Agnus wrote on January 24, 2024 at 10:26 am
Hello Daniel, First I wanted to Thank you for your beautiful existence, work, engagement, art and brilliant mind. Second, do you know the works of dr James Davies like “Cracked: Why psychiatry is doing more harm than good?” And third I would like to ask you if you agree with what I have written below: The naming issue - importance of language Psychology vs. psychiatry. List of medical specialties by nomenclature: endings: gr. -logía, eng. -logy “study of”: Audiology and Phoniatrics - fields of Otolaryngology Allergology Anesthesiology Cardiology Neurophysiology Dermatology Venereology Endocrinology Gastroenterology Gynecology Microbiology Neonatology Oncology Nephrology Neurology Ophthalomology Traumatology Pharmacology Pneumology Radiology Rheumatology Urology Proctology Immunology Podology and Podiatry Endings: gr. -iatreia eng. -iatry "treatment" Geriatrics - from Greek gēras ‘old age’ + iatros ‘doctor’, on the pattern of paediatric . There is a distinction between geriatrics and gerontology. Gerontology is the multidisciplinary study of the aging process, defined as the decline in organ function over time in the absence of injury, illness, environmental risks or behavioral risk factors. However, geriatrics is sometimes called medical gerontology. Pediatrics - Greek words: παῖς (pais "child") and ἰατρός (iatros "doctor, healer"). Obstetrics - From a Medical Latin obstetricus (“belonging to a midwife”), from Latin obstētrīx (“midwife”). Field combined with Gynecology Phoniatrics - Phoniatrics and audiology is one specialty within otolaryngology. Psychiatry Podiatry and podology - here is the same problem as with psychology and psychiatry Other endings and file names, e.g.: Surgery Emergency medicine Internal diseases, internal medicine Infectious diseases Orthopedics QUESTIONS: 1. Why has the name 'psychology' not been adopted by medicine as the name of the field? Why was another name invented for the field that deals with topics of the psyche? 2. Why don't we have ‘otolaryngiatry’, ‘endocrinoiatry’, ‘oncoiatrics’, ‘uroiatrics’ and so on? If we create the name ‘socioiatry’, will we create a branch of medicine dealing with the treatment of society? If we add “iatry” to geology, will we create the profession of an earth doctor? 3. What would happen if all psychology were transferred to the medical field? Is full medicalization of the psychic world the right move? I don’t think so, so... 4. For the logic of naming maybe we just transform psychiatry into a clinical psychology? Quote from Wikipedia: clinical psychology - a branch of applied psychology dealing with the prevention, diagnosis and therapy of mental and behavioral disorders, i.e. disturbances in the regulation of human relations with their environment. What about disturbances in the regulation of relations between the environment and the individual? Does this already belong to sociology, or maybe ‘sociatry’? 6. Why can't a psychologist or a psychotherapist write a sick leave from work? Why can't they have the ability to write a sick leave and I have to rely on the insight, judgment and will of a group of people I don't trust? The conclusions of Allen Frances - “the lead editor of the fourth edition of nt the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (universally known as the DSM-IV), the guy who wrote the book on mental illness, confessing that ‘these concepts are virtually impossible to define precisely with bright lines at the boundaries.’ ‘There is no definition of a mental disorder. It's bullshit. I mean, you just can't define it.’ Frances argued (in Gary Greenburg's 2013 book about the DSM-5, The Book of Woe) that these labels are still crucial to treatment, and he warned, ‘If you puncture that noble lie, you'll be doing a disservice to our patients . . . . A lot of false beliefs help people cope with life.’ Have Allen Frances just said that you can treat delusions with delusions? … https://www.wired.com/2010/12/ff-dsmv/ https://www.madinamerica.com/2023/01/acknowledge-psychiatry-religion/ In summary my main ideas are: 1. Transforming psychiatry into clinical psychology 2. Meeting of whole world's Psychological Associations with Psychiatric Associations and Patients Associations to conduct joint conversations about Mental World and Mental Health.
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Zoe Zoe from Bristol,UK wrote on January 24, 2024 at 9:09 am
'Our Options for Old Age: Wisdom or Decrepitude' - just watched it on your youtube ,absolutely love that video ,so profound and true ,very helpful to me at the moment
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Marnie Marnie wrote on January 22, 2024 at 1:49 pm
You are a light in the dark - a truth teller. We need more. Never stop....and thank you.
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JE JE wrote on January 20, 2024 at 10:29 am
63 y.o. dealing with cptsd from childhood trauma. father sexually abused me from age 12-13. Mom was clueless, older brother was an extreme and hateful bully. Been “in” therapy for 3 decades with various practitioners, but still feel broken. Father died about 6 years ago and I still cannot cry about it. People probably think I am cold-hearted, but I can’t force tears. Will be checking out your books. I find the concept really intriguing. Thank you.
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Niels Niels from Copenhagen wrote on January 20, 2024 at 9:21 am
Dear Daniel, I have been watching all of your videos over the past couple of months and found your content compelling and theories very explanatory. I am wondering what your thoughts are on the relative influence of genetics and other environmental influences compared with that of parents..? This is not a challenge or critique, but would be helpful for me to hear your nuanced analysis. Best wishes, Niels. Se for example this article: https://markmanson.net/parents
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Edwin Rivera Truth Finder Edwin Rivera Truth Finder from New Britain CT wrote on January 17, 2024 at 8:09 pm
Cowabunga!
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Aris Aris from Montreal wrote on January 15, 2024 at 9:37 am
Hello Daniel! I am writing to express how much I have enjoyed your videos. You are, to my knowledge, one of the few people who emphasize grieving as a path to personal growth. I also particularly liked your video concerning Jordan Peterson. I was wondering, time permitting, (apologies if you have already spoken on the subject) if you could touch on romantic relationships in relation to what seems like an addiction to them amongst certain people? The value, if any of consciously choosing to remain single as and things of that nature! Many thanks!
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Charlene Coscarelli Charlene Coscarelli from Chico, CA wrote on January 10, 2024 at 10:29 pm
Hi Daniel, I’m a psychotherapist in Chico, CA. Your story really resonated with me. Hearing you talk about focusing on our own (my own) feelings, our repression, perfectionism, self-loathing, lack of boundaries instead of trying to empathize with those who harmed us is so powerful. Your video was the best therapy I’ve gotten in months! I couldn’t help but imagine what you endured & you’re right - we HAD to forgive, we had no choice - we had to forgive or rot away - & the only we could do this was to distance ourselves from who we actually were/are - Healing is a gradual coming back to that authentic self - embracing, even reveling in that which we had to discard - the pain, the loneliness, the rejection, the isolation. If you ever feel so inclined, please reach out. The tears I shed while watching your video was one of the very few times I didn’t feel bitter. I felt seen, mirrored & understood in my desire to grow & distance from a pain we will always carry.
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Sandy Sandy from Kent, England wrote on January 9, 2024 at 12:48 pm
Hello Daniel - I've known about your work for a while but recently it has started to mean more and more to me. I think that you would enjoy the books of Dr Dorothy Rowe, an Australian psychologist who died about 5 years ago. She was unable to get a publisher in the US I seem to remember, as her books were so anti-establishment. But they were translated into many other languages. On the UK Amazon site, here is a link to them: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dorothy-rowe/s?k=dorothy+rowe One book she co-wrote with Peter Breggin. Anyway, have a good 2024! xx
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katy bauer katy bauer from penzance wrote on January 7, 2024 at 3:20 pm
Hi Thanks so much for your YouTube videos. I just shot a film of my boyfriend's brother who has been sectioned for 31 years after a psychotic breakdown at 22. His childhood was extremely traumatic. Anyway, I wonder whether you'd take a lick at his interview and consider giving it a boost via your channel. It would make him really happy, but of course, only if you think it is of value. I believe it to be. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AQnIVlG6Cmc&t=46s Thanks again! Katy
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jules jules from singapore wrote on January 6, 2024 at 8:20 am
hi Daniel, I found your videos on New Year's Day and I felt, for the first time in my life, that I finally found a voice that resonates with my experience and thoughts about childhood trauma. It's given me courage to trust myself more as I continue to figure out self-healing, adulthood, relationships while trying my best to live as a better person and to have a better life. I'm now in the midst of reading your book and it's provided so much clarity. Thanks for your work, it's really helpful for those of us who are working hard to heal and be better people in this world.
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Sandros Sandros from Miami wrote on January 5, 2024 at 2:25 am
Daniel your forgiveness video was on point and relate alot. Thanks for this authetic message and words to actually describe this frustration.
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Mr. Lister Mr. Lister from Charnel Dump, USA wrote on January 1, 2024 at 4:45 pm
I have been watching you for a very long time ... and I could help but laugh out loud while watching the video you made about being "Tea Bagged" ... I won't go for so far as to make any hard and fast rules about what to eat or drink in the morning, but apparently being "Tea Bagged" in the morning, doesn't always work for you?
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Brenda S. Brenda S. from Conway wrote on December 11, 2023 at 1:30 am
Hi Daniel, I love your content. If you mean our society becoming increasingly emotionally and mentally unsound as demonstrated by a lack of rationalization, I agree. Rapid-fire emotions trump all else. The more I try to reason with my family, the more emotional they become. The more fearful and threatened. How dare I disrupt their codependent state? Is the damage permanent that I'm wasting my breath? After all they have a death wish in place for me. If that isn't love I don't know what is. JK. But they are all much healthier than me.
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Blu Blu wrote on December 3, 2023 at 6:42 am
Hi Daniel, You speak the truth. Thank you. I’m wondering if you can help me. I’m an MFT student and am seeing what you saw. I’m not sure what to do. I’m seeing a lot of gaslighting and manipulation. Thank you for being courageous.
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Joan Cabarrus Joan Cabarrus from Austin wrote on December 1, 2023 at 8:28 pm
Last one and it's not self-therapy related. I will soon quit my career in medical field and will finally pursue my art business full time... and oh, my right thumb carpal tunnel-like pain from writing so much artbooks has subsided after watching your YouTube video about your thumb pain from playing guitar and how you did this back stretch that relieved it. Oh my goodness gracious, it solved my pain issue. I don't know who you are but you are certainly healing me from so many areas of life. Thanks for your presence. I am on my way to living almost 100% of an authentic life.
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Greg E. Greg E. wrote on December 1, 2023 at 2:07 pm
I have done THERAPY and Daniels TALKS are turning out to be the best I have ever had ! .......... Leaves you with no more Questions !!! * REAL Human SHARING his experiences & knowledge GOOD WORK ! Must be rewarding now !
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Joan Cabarrus Joan Cabarrus from Austin, Texas wrote on November 26, 2023 at 1:15 am
I was searching for the keyword “outsider” on YouTube and found your video about The Value of being an Outsider. I was feeling lonely during this Thanks Giving as I am alone with my two dogs in a state where I have no support system nearby nor close friends. I subconsciously followed my intuition that guided me where I am now residing, that also led me to strip away of all my old life including breaking away from my dysfunctional family system. I recently came across the terms scapegoat and truth tellers by another psychologist on YouTube and realized that I am one and after watching your video about being an outsider, I just knew I would resonate with everything else you put out on there. Even the self-therapy. …then it does not feel so alone anymore. Thank you.
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Marlyse Marlyse from Fort Walton Beach FL wrote on November 23, 2023 at 3:07 pm
Thank you for your words @ youtube.... I am convinced....that we become different person's due to trauma & grief....but do not process these 'emotions' correctly, perhaps due to ignorance, & being empathetic....learning to relearn to love oneself is an wkwardd lesson for sure! Most necessary and very liberating i.e being light.....as a butterfly 🦋!
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Crawford Crawford from las vegas wrote on November 7, 2023 at 8:31 am
Daniel, I watch your videos and having realized at a late age that my mother is NPD and other family related wounding - Thank you! It's been painful and the healing is partial I suppose but it is the truth that I can live with. I can hear still that tinge of wishing to be believed in your monologs. I sometimes doubt it all happened and have to review the facts to myself again to reprove the case. Thank you for having the courage to change and to share it. You have helped me.
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M. Chase M. Chase from Iowa City Iowa wrote on November 7, 2023 at 6:28 am
Hello Daniel, as I do not often pronounce myself on the internet through phrases and words. Your existence has made my journey overcome the harsher aspects of this “thing” we call life. Much love. Much respect. Initiatives that I was not aware of dwelling in the deep pit of my capsule. My outlook on living has drastically changed for the best. Your channel Has helped me take my Intensive thoughts turned into reality. A reality of trauma. Traumatic experiences that I myself and my surrounding peers evolving into who I am now forward. had been shoved deep down as This is the turning point. To perhaps open my soul and internally broaden myself.
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Natasha Natasha from London wrote on October 18, 2023 at 10:18 am
Hello Daniel. Just came across your YouTube &, wow, I love what you’re doing, particularly within the context of integrating your values with your actions & presence in the wider world. I also loved hearing your reasons for training as, and then discontinuing being, a psychotherapist. Such integrity & self-awareness. So much of what you said resonated with my decision not to train & to find alternative ways to help others, including through creative means. I find your words - written & spoken - really insightful and interesting. Thank you. Wishing you continued healing & happiness in all areas of your life.
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AL AL from Brooklyn wrote on October 13, 2023 at 8:43 am
Wow...I am also a former therapist in NYC and I'm so glad I'm not the only one who saw the truth of the system and got the hell out. Keep doing what you're doing.
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Carina Carina wrote on October 1, 2023 at 8:15 am
Daniel, thank you for your work and being so authentic which allows me to truly see you and in turn, see myself. I noticed you have been to Africa and wondered if you came across the Ubuntu philosophy? If you haven’t I think you would enjoy learning about it. Again, thank you for your work.
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Aneda Aneda from London ,UK wrote on September 28, 2023 at 9:04 am
Hi, Self help therapy it is a great tool for people who are willing to take a step and heal themselves from trauma. I was wandering, how childhood trauma can be processed and healed, in a deaf and mute, individual with leaning difficulties/autism and depression? This is a challenge for those individuals and the therapist right?
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Emery Rose Emery Rose from MANHASSET wrote on September 23, 2023 at 1:52 pm
Just wanted to thank you for your magnificent talks. My experience was almost identical to yours but on steroids. Parents were holocaust survivors and mom had super NPD. Had a therapist for decades. She did no harm. I never had a relationship. Live with 3 cats.......... On the up side I have a great career designing ultrasonic medical devices, and love my work. Lived my life in engineering books / that whole distraction thing. You helped me more than anyone else EVER. I'm OK. At the age of almost 70, it is what it is. Your life is well lived. THANK YOU Daniel!
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pjh pjh from Shimanto City, Japan wrote on September 20, 2023 at 12:55 pm
Thank you for the work you do and the insights you post. It’s a good treasure trove of information and the way present your information is in a very calm, polite, and organized way.
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M Dailey M Dailey from Omaha wrote on September 13, 2023 at 10:09 am
I never find others who know who Alice Miller is! Hey: how can I send an image of the sketch I drew while listening to one of your YouTube postings? It just organically arrived from my pencil and surprised even me.
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Claribell Claribell wrote on September 7, 2023 at 8:45 am
Hi Daniel, I find your vídeos on YouTube very insightful and want to thank you for them! Sometimes I find myself wondering what you would say about certain topics since I quite trust your opinion. I recently stumbled upon Internal Family Systems and have been doing a deep dive into that therapy modality. I truly feel it’s a therapy that could help everyone heal from all kinds of traumas (especially those rooted in childhood). Any insight you could share on this topic would be greatly appreciated! Thanks again for the work you do.
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Kristoffer Stenlund Kristoffer Stenlund from Stockholm wrote on August 31, 2023 at 4:53 pm
Hi! I recognice alot of childhood trauma and being a victim of other acting out the trauma. For a long time i thought a lot on biology diet and things in biology that made me hurt. But now I am starting to recognicing the truth of my habitual cage and my self
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